Remember the fun quizzes you would take as a teenager? “Who’s Your Celeb Twin?” “What Decade Do You Belong In?” Well I figured we could have a little fun here, too, and talk about our different mom styles!
So each week we’ll look at a different kind of style of “mom-ing,” if you will. Can we make that a thing? Mom-ing! It’s just so catchy haha. Anyways, in today’s spotlight we have the…
Sure, the term has some negative connotations these days, but it’s not all bad. Right? I’m a glass half-full kinda gal, so I like to believe that deep down inside, the Helicopter Mom just wants what is best for her child. But sometimes she can get a little carried away with her good intentions.
The term “Helicopter Mom” comes from her tendency to hover over her child/children. She can be overly immersed in every aspect of her child’s life. And not only is she aware of everything going on with her child, she is equally involved with their doctors, teachers, and the parents of her child’s friends.
The upside to so much hovering is that if there ever really is a problem, they will know about it immediately. An otherwise ignored illness, a bully on the playground, will all be caught and addressed by the all-seeing Helicopter Mom.
The children of Helicopter Parents face a potential future of entitlement, inflated ego, anxiety issues, and a fear of failure. If their parent(s) have been there their whole life, micro-managing everything, righting every wrong, coddling, and swooping in to save them from anything bad, then they may not be prepared to deal with the real world.
Deeply concerned with academic performance and fiercely protective, these moms tend to be stricter than Helicopter Moms. The end result is highly valued. Success is measured by grades, trophies, and medals.
Also known as a Bulldozer Mom, this mom will go to any length to make sure her child never has to face any kind of obstacle or problem. She will mow down or bulldoze anything that poses a threat to her child, whether it’s making a bad grade disappear or canceling play dates with rough kids.
Proud as a peacock, this mom frames every doodle, takes loads of pictures, and fills your Facebook feed with all her little one’s accomplishments. Not only does she love showing off her own child, she is constantly comparing her child to others. “Oh your son isn’t crawling yet? Mine has been crawling for two months now.”
And that finishes the first installment in a series on different mom styles! Stay tuned for the next mom style! Remember, everything on here is just for funsies and shouldn’t be taken too seriously 🙂 Hope you enjoyed it